“A true friend is someone who sees the pain in your eyes while everyone else believes the smile on your face.”
– (A quote from the post provided below)
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**The Princess in the Tower has become one of my favorite blogs. Each post is written so well, to the point where it feels like the words are literally taken out of my mouth.**
It’s not a bunch of medical mumbo jumbo, which is great! Especially for those who do not have Chronic pain,and are reading posts on that blog, so they can get a general idea of what a loved one is going through.
*For those of you who do take the time to read literature about your loved ones condition, because you genuinely care and want to help/be there for them… Thank you.*
Believe it or not, there aren’t many like you. I lost almost all of my friends. Friends that were in my life for 15+ years. One of the hardest, was my “best friend” of 16 years. I was there for her through A LOT, and did a lot for her when she needed a friend. A sister. While she was going through medical issues. I’d drop everything I was doing for ANY of my close friends. That’s just who I am.
*I don’t understand how a nice handful of “close friends” could just drop me like a bad habit… At a time when I desperately needed them. Even if it’s just to come over and watch a movie! Going through that phase in this challenge that I’m dealing with, was the most hurtful, and always will be*
With that being said, I’d like to thank my family, with the bottom of my heart.
-I know there are times when I can be … Bitchy… (Sorry, there was really no tip toeing around that one).
– I know it gets really frustrating when I forget things often.
– I know it’s not easy to see me miserable,and there’s nothing anyone can do to help.
– I could go on… But, lets keep this list to a minimum 😉
But through all of that, none of you have left. You have done the opposite. I know “that’s what families are for, to be there for each other no matter what.”
*But I’m so lucky to have you guys. I love you all so much. And I appreciate EVERYTHING you all do,even if I don’t act like it at the time. Pain like this can make you a mean person at times. But thank you for staying by my side*
I love you.
(I know, I was a wicked cute baby. That would fall asleep in my food 😛 hehe)
For those of you who are a friend/in a relationship/a loved one, to someone who has a chronic pain condition…. Please don’t run.
We need you. We need support. When you just leave us,after being in our lives for so many years… it feels like you’re stabbing us in the heart.
Trust me, we are already scared. And going through a type of pain that is debilitating, and indescribable … While doctors don’t know what to do with us..
We need any kind if normalcy we can get.
Come over and watch movies! If my pain isn’t through the roof, lets go to dinner!
What I’m trying to say, is we are still here. We are still alive. No, we are not the same people but, with your help, there’s a chance that we don’t loose hope.
Any hoot! I’ll stop now. But please check out the blog above, it truly is amazing. And it is not solely based on CRPS!
Thank you all for letting me vent… On my own blog…lol
Until next time,
- 11 Chronic Pain Self Coping Techniques (hopeforyourcause.org)
- Does chronic pain affect a spouse’s sleep? (psypost.org)
- Not Lazy, Not Crazy, Just in Pain (noonegetsflowersforchronicpain.wordpress.com)
- Lessons I Now Can Truly Hear (noonegetsflowersforchronicpain.wordpress.com)